Group throws Curve Ball to fund college for brothers who lost parents
Sep 4, 2017To lose both parents in just 14 months would seem overwhelming for two brothers from Indian Head Park.But happy memories and the caring support of family and friends are helping Phil Janowiak, 17, and his brother, Matt, 19, move forward.The teens lost their mom, Julie, to kidney disease in April 2013 after an 18-month struggle. She was just 47.While the family was still reeling from that loss, the boys' father, Michael, suffered a stroke with complications that proved fatal in August. He was just 50."I try to think about them every day, happy things," said Phil Janowiak, a senior at Lyons Township High School. "Being able to think about them in a positive way without being sad or sorry really helps me. It makes me feel better."It also has been helpful to have a place to live less than three blocks from the family's former home."I'm staying with one of our best friends, the Stefanini family," Phil Janowiak said. "Dante and I have been friends since preschool. Our brothers, Matt and Rocco, have been best friends, and our moms were best friends."Being a part of LT's football team with Dante Stefanini also has meant a lot, Phil Janowiak said."Football kept me really busy right after the loss of my dad," he said. "He died on a Thursday, and I was at practice on a Saturday. It helped."Now that the season is over, Phil Janowiak said he's found time to take part in Operation Showball, a peer leadership program at the high school."I have a little bit of wisdom on the suffering department," he said. "Everybody has problems. Helping others is the best way to help one's self."Matt Janowiak, a 2013 Fenwick High School graduate and now a sophomore at St. Louis University, said friends and family have made all the difference for him."There was just an outpouring of cards and phone calls and everything," he said. "I have really great friends who have been there and my family has really stepped up and been great. That's what helps the most and has gotten us through."Immersing himself in sch... (Chicago Tribune)